Trying to avoid the risk of being your best and settling for the obvious good giving, gives you and average to above average life at best. But is this what you really want, you were created for an excellent life. The world constantly offers you an above average life if you'll avoid the exam for the excellent life. Life seems difficult at times, the preparation and work to make life worth while is often challenging and requires the learning of life lessons. Many will feel a relief when offered the "B" grade life, because they can avoid the study time and life lessons it takes for the "A" grade life. Don't settle for less than you're capable of, have confidence in what you've learned so you can proceed with life's exam and be more than average to above average. Those who believe in what they've learned and what they're doing, count life lessons of failure and success, the exam they've prepared for. These are the people you surround yourself with, those who want to take the exam for an excellent life, an "A" grade not "B" grade. Studies show that by the age of two, 50 percent of what we ever believe about ourselves has been formed; by age six, 60 percent, and at eight years, 80 percent. The child like trust and optimism of life, says theres is nothing you cant do or learn. Surround yourself with positive people - they know the importance of confidence and will help you keep focused on what you can do instead of what you can't. The people you surround yourself with is who you become.
Unpack the "B" grade mind set, never stop believing in yourself. Crave the exam, don't cringe over it.